The Established Path of Discipleship

I heard a comedian the other day poking fun at the word art people have in their homes. He said, “Live, laugh, love? I’m like, live, laugh, leave!” We can understand that sentiment, especially when some guests overstay their welcome. His comments, however, made me think about hospitality and how much I miss entertaining guests in my home. Since 2017, I have been unable to entertain guests in my home for reasons related to space and family concerns. This time of not having guests in my house will soon come to an end, and we are looking forward to inviting friends over for dinner.

The hospitality I receive from others has enriched my life. Each week, I lead a small group that meets in different homes. We begin our time together with a meal. We catch up on one another’s lives around the table. The conversation is unhurried and unstructured. Sometimes, we talk about serious concerns, but other times, we laugh together. But whatever the subject of discussion, I leave each meal feeling more connected to my brothers and sisters.

I will not give you a list of ways to exercise hospitality because I am no expert. I will, however, encourage you to practice unhurried conversation. When we meet to fellowship with other believers, there is no agenda, no schedule. It takes time and patience to connect. Some talk slowly, some tell too many stories, and some offer small tidbits to the conversation at a time. Some may often sit silently. But regardless of the level of participation during one of our small gatherings, something is happening. Fellowship is happening. We are connecting.

So, take your time whenever you meet at your next intimate Christian gathering, be it dinner or a small group fellowship. Be present. Listen to the people who are speaking to you. Share what’s on your heart, share something you found interesting this week, or share something funny. Do not worry about looking foolish. The conversation is awkward sometimes, and that is okay. Each moment with other believers is precious, and not a minute is wasted. God is guiding each conversation for our good and his glory.